I have thought about Vaultwarden but is it still the de facto oos solution? I read that people aren’t very happy with it

Almost there:

• You and your wifes phones -> YES
• A shared laptop with two accounts -> YES
• A server running FBQ and or syncthing? -> NO, currently only Syncthing but was considering FBQ to solve the sharing bit.

Although I think I get what you are saying. I think Syncthing can be setup to keep backup copies but not exactly the same as versioning I guess. Maybe I just have to go back to something more similar to Nextcloud but that is not Nextcloud like OwnCloud Infinite Scale or Opencloud.

Yes, I have exactly the same setup. But we’ve lost a couple of password because we had Keepass open at the same time. This never happened with Nextcloud.

People on my LAN. Samba shares on mobiles too?

Yes, but when you try to share that folder with different users on the same device it gets complicated … each user needs its own instance and it feels messy and unecessatily complicated for the end user.

Does it do proper file sharing like nextcloud i.e. multiuser accounts that sharefile folders?

I thought opencloud was some other nextcloud fork but having just checked the website it looks like it provides multiple services not just file sharing

Truely agree. I also did the nextcloud to syncthing+radical leap but still trying to effectively resolve proper file shating.

Ah, have you just solved one of the main limits i have for syncthing. I didnt know about this filebrowser quantum thing. My use case is that i have a keepass file i manage with my wife between devices and on the same laptop (two different debian logins). But really, but is the purpose of this tool? To replace your local kde dolphine for example? Trying to understand the usecase.

But remember its not a good option for sharing file between family members for example. I used to have nextcloud but its a beast and it kspt breaking at every update so i gave up

Looks like someone has forked nextcloud and created another huge beast. But looks interesting.

Ok, that sounds neat. I have a large dataset shared with proxmox to save snapshots of the VMs. Is there a setting in proxmox that will prevent it hanging if the share goes down? Also, if i have 5 services on vm, do i need 5 top level datasets on TN or can i nest in a “proxmox_services” datset, which would be easier to maintain and setup for replication, rsync, etc?

No they are docker containers.

All that storage these days would require a morgage

Looks like i don’t have to expose ports or anything like that, right?

Thanks for sharing the link. Nice when people share their effort. Goid for getting ideas

13 years?? That machine has never gone fown fo 13 years??

Edit: ah, i see! It’s kuma that allows you to i guess by adding new device on phone Signal

Ah cool! How do you get notifications sent to signal. I’ve always avoided because i didnt like emails of my home setup leaving home in clear

Thats cool! My wife thinks i’m crazy just because i homeserve …