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Software developer by day, insomniac by night. Send me pictures of baby bats to make my day.

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  • I recently put Graphene on my no-longer work phone. I think what makes it extra tough is that it feels familiar and simultaneously alien.

    There’s an action centre, and you can edit toggles, but there are no editable sliders for audio and brightness. A lot of the icons feel like buttons but aren’t.

    Then there’s the gestures. They feel a little off. The back motion can be done forward too, and there’s no preview of what “back” is. And I loathe the settings pane.

    Graphene is nice, but I still dislike Android.








  • I have Netbird hosted on my VPS, and have my home server act as a routing exit node, as well as the way I access stuff on my home network.

    In essence, my setup looks like this

    1. Network Routing > Networks, I’ve set up a network called Home Network LAN which exposes a Subnet for my home network, lit. the IPs I use locally. (192.168…), called Home Subnet
    2. Access Control > Groups I have a group called Home Network Users, within which I’ve put the devices that should be able to access the home network (my phone, my laptop, not the servers).
    3. Access Control > Policies sets up a policy called Home Network Access, which has Home Network Users as a source, and the Home Subnet as a destination.

    I think that’s about it, really. If I am outside of my home network, I connect my Netbird VPN and I can access any and all things on my home network using the direct internal network IPs from anywhere. I have also set up the home server as a routing exit node, and added an Adguard instance as a DNS server so I can use my private network domains as well.

    So basically I can connect to my Jellyfin instance either via direct home-IP (192.168.x.5 or whatever) or via jellyfin.home.arpa

    I am not sure your travel router needs to be a routing peer.

    I am also rubbish at network things, so if you have follow-up questions I’ll probably struggle to understand them.







  • How can we live life outside bigtech ecosystems, except for self hosting?

    I’ve no arguments against this. It’d be terribly hypocritical on account of where we’re having this discussion, as well as why we’re both here. I obviously also have an interest in self-hosting. That said, I do think that installing containers is just a fairly small part of the whole, and quite different from running a plug-and-play OS like Linux Mint. There’s also the troubleshooting, and networking nonsense, and hands-on migrations when something big changes.

    There’s self-hosted software out there I don’t want to self host because it’s just too much work. For example I use a Hetzner managed instance of NextCloud to replace Google Drive, and that still required me to set up and configure Collabora in a container and make those two play nice.

    You know your partner best yourself, if you think they’re ready for this and that this is something that they’d appreciate then go for it. The “uninterested in software” bit would have me a bit hesitant. They might appreciate it, but say you break up down the line, what happens then?

    I used to date this guy who always had trouble with his computer. I’d come over and help troubleshoot, fix things up. Eventually he got some spare cash and decided he wanted a new computer. I suggested we put together a custom one. We’ve since broken up, but he still asks for help with his computers from time to time. We’re still good friends - jag tror att det är relativt vanligt här i Norden, vi brukar inte vara så explosivt dramatiska - so I don’t have a problem with it.

    It’s really sweet that you want to give your partner a slice of freedom, and had I been your partner I’d be very appreciative. You do risk kind of giving them a bunch of labour that they’re not very interested in. Like I said though, you know your partner best yourself.