Gatus. Works and easy incremental set up.

Compatibility layer. Wine Is Not an Emulator.

DNS for let’s encrypt via caddy integration and just have the same definition for all of your caddy servers and whatever you point your domains at will work as expected. Single config and redundancy with certs.

Start small and basic. Pick a service you want to host and then decide how you want to access it and ask questions. Over time it won’t seem so insurmountable.

If you have a bunch of questions list them and we will do oir best to answer them.

XMPP is not good. The clients are poor. The core server requires a bunch of extensions to do basic stuff like sync history with clients. I have my gripes with Matrix but I ran right back to it after trying xmpp for a month. Yes I tried the distros etc etc, the stack is too old and people aren’t modernizing it.

I don’t understand why people keep bringing it up as if it is a viable modern replacement for Matrix, it isn’t.

Mailcow is also a good all in one mail distro.

Hrmm. How does that change the SSD problem if you are using a file on the SSD? I reread the meme. Maybe I’m too blurry eyed still but I don’t see that coming through.

Your problem is not caused by system swap.

Swap is there an emergency relief for when a runaway process starts to eat all the resources. The system gets slow the user says hey what’s that? They look and see oh wow this one process is really eating a lot of resources that’s bad, can I kill it or do I need to gracefully try to shut it down. Swap buys you time when it could matter. When you don’t have swap OOM killer takes out whatever it wants and for a desktop user that may not be that big of a deal but for a server the database is likely the first target that is taken out.

On so sorry guys we have no idea how we could lower the prices that are making us rich. I mean we could increase the supply and work towards a new norm of what the market needs but that’ll take at least a decade of high prices.

Nah. We just know how to boot a broken system and fix it.

You can easily sequester your personal stuff from your self hosted stuff. Most traffic going anywhere is encrypted as it should be. The main concern is lateral movement hence the network isolation.

Mail gang in da house.

Everyone should hoat mail. These corps started there for a reason. Take it all back.

That’s a you/network problem not a jellyfin problem. I run it exposed via a reverse proxy the sane way I expose Plex. I’m not using their bullshit proxy.

Which ones get he most play?

XMPP is nice but even with all of the quality of life extensions it definitely feels clunky. I tried switching to it recently from matrix and while matrix leaves a lot to be desired I found it was more useful in its current form than XMPP.

So it is a good publicity stunt on their part.

SWAG. SWAG. SWAG.

Apparently it is just a customized nginx set up.

Ahh yeah. Good ol winaock. DLL. Just copy the DLL and magically these programs are connected???